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Tips for Being an Effective Mentee

Marisa Gift, Learning & Development Manager
June 2, 2015
Tips for Being an Effective Mentee

We recently discussed tips on how to be a more effective mentor, but we all know it takes two to tango! According to Forbes, employees on the other side of the mentoring table – mentees – “were promoted FIVE times more often than people who didn’t have mentors.” Here are some tips for increasing the value of your mentoring relationship by being a more effective mentee:

 

Drive the Relationship

As a mentee, you need to initiate contact with your mentor and be proactive about scheduling a time to meet. Also, meet on your mentor’s terms by determining a time and location that works best for her schedule. Come prepared for each meeting by setting an agenda in advance. The more you prepare, the more you will get out of your time together. Remember, this is about your development, so you need to drive the relationship.

 

Ask the Right Questions

The best questions are those that present options to your mentor and then seek advice on how to think about those options. In other words, rather than asking, “Which job should I choose?” ask, “I’m deciding between these two jobs, which each offer these benefits and these drawbacks. What do you think?”  This type of question shows that you did your homework as a mentee and also promises a more helpful response from your mentor.

 

Listen, Yet Remain True to You

A mentor’s job is to offer honest feedback, including constructive advice. Carefully consider what your mentor has to say and consider how you can use the information to better yourself. At the same time, a good mentor will know a person needs a mind of their own to be successful, so you are not required to be your mentor’s “mini-me.” You are, however, expected to either follow through on your mentor’s advice or have a conversation if you are skeptical. Do not drop the ball when it comes to follow-up.

 

Show an Interest in Your Mentor (Not Just Their Advice)

Think about what you have to offer your mentor. It could be as simple as forwarding articles that you know will be of interest or gathering some helpful tips for a new software your organization has launched. The American Bar Association’s Young Lawyers Division calls this “developing reciprocity,” and there’s no better way to ensure a mentoring relationship will endure for the long haul.

 

Show Appreciation

Dale Carnegie, a relationship-building expert, said that giving “honest, sincere appreciation” is one of the best ways to win friends and influence people. Remember to thank your mentor and let her know she makes a difference. Also, be specific about how your mentor has been helpful. If you express how a mentor has been helpful in the past, you are also giving guidance for how to best assist you in the future.

These tips, combined with our previous discussion of the mentor side, confirm that the best mentoring relationships will offer mutual rewards! If you have any questions on this topic, please contact us.

  • Responsibility, Discipline, Achiever, Relator, Learner

Marisa Gift

Learning & Development Manager

Marisa Gift, Learning & Development Manager, began her career in 2002. With experience in higher education and professional development, she brings valuable expertise to her role at Lutz. 

Focusing on curriculum design and training facilitation, Marisa creates comprehensive learning programs that support the firm's professional growth. She develops customized training content, facilitates engaging sessions, and helps lead the Development Lead program and feedback processes. Marisa takes a well-rounded approach to learning design—starting with understanding the needs and ending with content that’s practical, relevant, and fun. What she enjoys most is seeing the learning process in action—watching people connect the dots and use what they’ve learned to grow professionally. Her background in communication and education enables her to translate complex topics into accessible learning experiences that resonate with learners across the firm. 

 

Marisa lives in Omaha, NE, with her husband Alan, their children Tyler and Sienna, and their dog Tippy. Outside the office, you can find her cheering on her kids at ice rinks and soccer fields, singing, playing piano, and supporting the Drake Bulldogs. 

 

402.496.8800

mgift@lutz.us

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